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Today is Dean's birthday...he is the big 3-6. Every year his birthday kind of gets looked over because of the time of year it falls on,
but it doesn't mean that he isn't important to us. I have to find a working scanner to post pictures of him from when he was a kid, so these ones of him a bit older will have to do for your entertaining pleasure.
Now...since he never reads my blog, I get to say whatever I want about him without worrying what his reaction will be, so here goes.I love my husband. It hasn't always been easy to love him. (Unfortunately I married someone who is just like me). But I love him now more than I have ever loved him before. There are days and times when I wonder what I got myself into, marrying someone who has an opinion about everything and that opinion is always the right one. But as he gets older I see a wiser, more mature, more amazing man emerging. I don't think Dean has ever really tried to see his own potential. I think he has gotten by on amazing raw talent for a very long time. But as he gets older and life becomes more challenging he is starting to open up to a world that requires more out of him than just raw talent.
I'm not going to post a wonderful sappy "I love my husband" post, because after all, this blog is for me and my fading memory, not for other people. If I posted a pretend "life is wonderful" post about how wonderful Dean is and how he walks on water and heals the blind, you might be fooled but I wouldn't be. He has faults, I have faults, and those faults make our marriage something we have to work really hard to succeed at. But I will say this. Heavenly Father knew exactly what he was doing when he put us together. Dean has taught me so much about who I am. He has made me a calmer, more relaxed and thoughtful person.
He has pushed me to find peace within myself. I love him because he tries very hard to be the man I see. I want him to know that he is my best friend and he has worked very hard to become so. I love him for being a quiet leader in my life and for the huge heart he is showing towards others as he learns how service fills his life. I am excited to see where life takes him, and grateful I was the one chosen to come along for the ride.
Last week we went to a local park and got our family pictures taken. They turned out so cute! Thanks so much to Tiffany Parrish who did a fabulous job of not only getting us out of the cold fast (we were done in 30 minutes!!) but of taking awesome pictures that captured my children perfectly!! You can check out her website at tiffanyparrishphotography.com.I'm having a hard time choosing a family picture to blow up and put in the living room. Care to weigh in and tell me what you think??Family Pic. Option 1 
Family Pic. Option 2
Tonight Alissa asked me how old I was when I got married. Here is our conversation:
A:"Mom, how old were you when you got married?"
M:"24"
A:"So I will have to wait until I'm 24 to get married too" (notice it wasn't a question...)
M:"Yep"
A:"And I'll have to wait until I find a boy"
M:"Yes"
A:"That's going to be hard" (I had to really bite my tongue to keep from laughing at that)
M: "You think so? Actually the hard part for you will be telling all the boys no. You're so amazing that everyone will want you to be their wife"
A: "Really?"
M: "Of course!"
A: "I guess he should be at least as pretty as I am"
M: "That's a good place to start. But he will also need to be very smart, because you are extremely smart and you won't want to marry someone who can't keep up with you."
(quiet pause as Alissa is clearly contemplating what I'd just said...)
A: (very thoughtfully...) "....So he'll need to be able to read and know what 1+1 is..."
I hate to admit it, but the blame can't be placed entirely on clearwire's shoulders. After all, it can't be their fault that I put up with them for 2 years despite the horrible service I got. And it surely isn't their fault that I waited until the middle of December to finally switch.
Let me make this clear. I can't complain about the customer service I received from Clearwire. They tried, multiple times, to help me find a good signal strength inside my house. Last year when my whole family was here and we had 3 laptops trying to get a wi-fi signal, and Rachel was trying to fix my laptop (which meant trying to download all of my missing drivers), I called customer service and got someone who told me to try a new trick. This is the new trick, which I have been using since last christmas (one whole year mind you).
Just in case you can't tell, that is my modem, sitting in my open window. This was the "trick" I was told to try. So this is what we've done for the past 365 days. Everytime we wanted to get on the internet we had to open the window and stick the modem outside. Then we would sit right next to it and browse email, the internet, etc. In the winter you freeze to death. In the summer we couldn't get on after 9pm because our house would fill up with bugs. And if it was ever windy the modem would blow out the window, or dust would fill my house. And if you live in the Tri-Cities you know the wind never blows around here.
So it is with great joy that I say...Goodbye Stupid Clearwire!! Goodbye freezing my bum off, or fighting off mosquitoes. Goodbye wind and dust storms (well at least I can keep my window closed during them now). Hello high priced, ridiculously jacked, but warm and bug free charter hi speed wireless internet. And don't worry, even if I can't get service unless I have to stand on my head and drink water upside down, I am a loyal customer and won't switch to someone new.
Just wanted to let everyone know about my new little niece, Lily Marie. She was born on Dec. 4th, weighing in at 7lbs 4 oz, and 18.5 inches long.
My sister Andrea had a very very long labor, but luckily both she and Lily are doing well now.
Welcome little Lily...another addition to the woman dominated Dietzen family..
.we can't wait to meet you!